Have you ever spent an evening with a friend who turned every positive emotion into something negative? I bet you walked away feeling mentally drained.On the flip side, when you spend time with friends who lift you up you are inspired to conquer the world.
There is an old saying that goes something like this "show me your friends and I will tell you who you are".Your self-worth should not be dependent on others,but incredible things are rarely accomplished alone.Friends help.
Some friendship can form at an early age and we may even stays friends with people from high school or college.But we change.Our goals change and we evolve and grow.It can be a stark realization that the friends we grew to know and trust may not understand our new path or jouney.That realization doesn't have to stop you from being friends,but spending a lot of time with people who doesn't get excited your success won't motivate you to success.
The people you spend the most time with should :
- Make a better person
- Support you
- Push you to meet your goals
- Inspire you
- Help you transform
The Dreamer
Some dreamers may be seen as unrealistic or undisciplined, but they also be insightful visionaries.They think of things that other do not.They help you imagine what if.You feel life's vitality when you are around them.Dreamer have a strong tendency to be highly creative and they make you believe that every thing is possible.
The Driver
The Driver brings the dream to reality.They understand the big picture,but they have the talent to break it down into actionable steps.They are result oriented and and are usually decisive,direct and pragmatic.They may fall to the practical side, but they know
how to get things done and thrive on the thrill of the challenge.
The Motivator
This is your voice of inspiration.They keep pushing you to meet your goals.They help you understand your goals more frequently
when they are tied to a "higher purpose".
This person infuses you with energy and enthusiasm.
The Supporter
This is the true friend.This is the with whom you can let your guard down.They are your comfort zone.They are your safe heaven.Comfort is not all that bad at times;
just remember that you still have to reach for more.This person will be there with you
as you jounery through life and they will journey with you.They excited when you realize success and support you in times of need.
The Devil's Advocate
This person is the critical thinker.They sak questions and lots of them.They see problems before they arise.This person is crucial because you need their perspective.
They won't sugarcoat it. They're blunt but they try to look out for you.You may not always like waht they have to say, but they are often the voice of reason.
To Sum it up :
The Driver
The Driver brings the dream to reality.They understand the big picture,but they have the talent to break it down into actionable steps.They are result oriented and and are usually decisive,direct and pragmatic.They may fall to the practical side, but they know
how to get things done and thrive on the thrill of the challenge.
The Motivator
This is your voice of inspiration.They keep pushing you to meet your goals.They help you understand your goals more frequently
when they are tied to a "higher purpose".
This person infuses you with energy and enthusiasm.
The Supporter
This is the true friend.This is the with whom you can let your guard down.They are your comfort zone.They are your safe heaven.Comfort is not all that bad at times;
just remember that you still have to reach for more.This person will be there with you
as you jounery through life and they will journey with you.They excited when you realize success and support you in times of need.
The Devil's Advocate
This person is the critical thinker.They sak questions and lots of them.They see problems before they arise.This person is crucial because you need their perspective.
They won't sugarcoat it. They're blunt but they try to look out for you.You may not always like waht they have to say, but they are often the voice of reason.
To Sum it up :
- A dreamer will help you dream it.
- A driver will turn dreams into reality.
- A Motivator will inspire you every step of the way.
- A supporter will never leave your side through good and bad times.
- A devil's advocate will cut through the BS and tell you the real deal.
Be persistent with surrounding Yourself with people who bring out the best in you.
Be rentless in having a network of people who constantly challenge you as much as challenge yourself.
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